My Favourite Life

August 21, 2006

Deepthroat

Filed under: Anal Sex,Fellatio,oral sex — myfavouritelife @ 5:04 pm

As a male, I have been spoiled. I had always thought blowjobs were over rated. For many of my earlier sexual years I had received only mediocre blowjobs at best. Even when the fellatrix was a self-proclaimed expert, the experience was only so-so. I even had the opportunity to get a blowjob from a person, Alicia, (more on her later) who not only claimed to give the best head, I had endorsements from other recipients—OK, one was a woman, but the other one was a guy. Still, despite the raving, it was not so good. It got to the point that I would actively refuse blowjobs on principle alone.

Upon getting married, I decided I would try again. I married Kristen, a women 10 years younger than me with not much experience (more on her later). I guess I figured I could teach her. After all, I had a lifetime in front of me—or so I thought at the time; We had closer to 7 years. As it turned out, she was a natural and gave decent head—not great but better than most of the others. She was the best I had had to that time, but there was a catch. it turned out she didn’t like to give head, and there I was finally wanting it. Well, as the maxim goes. “we want what we cannot have.” We had dated for 2 years only having regular sex, and here we were at a standstill. To add insult to injury, she wouldn’t swallow, and nothing ruins an otherwise good blowjob as a woman who won’t swallow. It wouldn’t have been so bad if she just didn’t swallow, but she went through many theatrics of gagging and coughing and choking when I did cum in her mouth. Facials weren’t all the rage in those days, but I have never been all that keen on giving facials. To me, it ruins my focus, which is to cum. Pulling out never delivers optimal pleasure.

She never did get past this aversion to blowjobs, but she did make up for it in other ways. In any case, we divorced and between marriages, I had the pleasure of hooking up with a woman, Sandra, who did deepthroat. As it turned out, this was the only pleasure I had with here and her only redeeming feature, but I digress. Early in her sexual experience, she decided she didn’t like the taste of semen, and she figured out how to bypass her taste buds by deepthroating. Hey. Who am I to argue?

Well, after a year or so, we went our separate ways. The ability to deepthroat is not enough to maintain a long term relationship. I met another woman, and we eventually married. We are still married. After a few years of asking—OK, I admit it; it was more like begging—, she finally acquiesced. We had read some instructions on the Internet, but they were not very helpful. We finally bought a book, Blow Him Away: How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex—actually we bought 2 books, that and The Low Down on Going Down: How to Give Her Mind-Blowing Oral Sex, for her pleasure, too—. This book instructed her to lay on her back and hang her head over the bed. This would align her throat in a straight path. She was rather immobile, so I was going to have to fuck her face. She was pretty nervous to say the least and was worried about her gag reflex, so she relaxed with some Xanax and wine, and she sprayed her throat with some sore throat numbing medication just to be extra cautious.

Finally—and it had been years—, I had a partner who could take my cock into her throat. It was wonderful. I forgot to mention that my wife is a blowjob queen. She is an expert. There really is something to be said about being with an experienced woman. Sure, she sucked a lot of cock before we met, but I just look at the benefits. Enough said.

Anyway, after a few minutes of my fucking her throat and her figuring out how to breath on the out strokes, she wanted to try it in a more typical blowjob position with me laying on the bed. I didn’t want the experience to be ruined, so I reminded her to keep her throat aligned with her mouth. She had no problem. It is so exciting watching her go all the way to my balls, and it feels heavenly. She doesn’t have any apprehensions about swallowing cum, so I could have cum in my usual manner, but I wanted to cum when I was as far in her throat as I could get, so I did.

When we were finished—if you were wondering, she came first—, I had to ask her how it was for her—especially because she had been so apprehensive. She not only said it was not bad, but she said she didn’t even think I even got into her throat—the sore throat spray worked, methinks. When I asked her if it was easier for her than taking anal (more on that later), of which she is not a fan but does to keep me happy, she said it was. That was good news to me.

The next morning—after the throat spray had lost its effect—, she said, “I guess you were in my throat. It is kind of sore.” In the end, she agreed that it wasn’t that bad for her and not much different than her giving a regular blowjob. This was more good news. Psychologically, it is still not her favourite thing, but she is willing, and I am able.

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