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September 21, 2006

Deepthroat 101

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Try this at home! This explains exactly how to do deepthroat. I have decided to add this to my 101 Series of sexual how-to posts. So, here’s the low down on going down all the way. I have commented on this before, but I decided to create a separate entry for beginners wishing to give deepthroat a try. I have read (and tried) other tips on the Internet, but most were not correct. At least they didn’t work for me. This works. I wrote about this in a separate post, but I felt I would give it a post of its own.

First, I would like to point out the arguments many women put forth against deepthroat.

  • I don’t like you enough to deepthroat you.
  • Real women can’t give deepthroat. It is something only porn stars can do.
  • I can’t deepthroat because of my gag reflex, or else I’ll puke.

So, in order, I’ll tackle these points.

I Don’t Like You Enough

Sorry, dude. I can’t help you here.

Real Women Can’t Deepthroat

This is untrue. Any normal woman can deepthroat a cock—well, a cock that is long enough to reach her throat, that is. It is only 3 inches to her throat from the entrance of her mouth. If you’ve got more than that, you can hit her throat.

I’ll Gag

This is untrue. Again, any normal woman can deepthroat a cock. A sensitive gag reflex is learned. My wife has a hair-trigger gag reflex, and she can deepthroat me. She used this excuse for the longest time. If she is still nervous, she should try some sore-throat spray first, though it is not necessary. She has to make sure her throat is lubricated. Saliva is fine, but don’t rule out sexual lubricant like Slippery Stuff. It can help.

The biggest obstacle to deepthroating is anatomy. The throat is at a ninety degree angle from the opening of the mouth—and your cock is likely pretty straight. The trick, then, is to align her throat with her mouth by tipping her head back. I good beginners position is to lay on her back on a bed, hanging her head over the edge. From here, you can simply fuck her face slowly. See the image below. (Disclaimer: the picture is not my cock and no one I know.) She will have to take a few minutes or so to get used to the sensation and figure out her breathing, but she will. Been there; done that.

How to Deepthroat

Once she has this down, she can get in to a more typical blowjob position. If this is already her usual position, you are home free. if she changes position, she has already trained her throat to take your cock without choking. She won’t gag, and she won’t puke. In the end, it is like riding a bicycle. Once she figures it out, she won’t forget. The best thing about deepthroat for those women who don’t like to swallow cum, if you are in her throat, you by-pass her taste buds. I know one woman skilled in the art of deepthroat who decided to learn this technique for that reason alone. When she found out how men hang around for longer with that to look forward to, that was only deeper reinforcement.

Some guys are turned on by the gagging, and this is shown in many porno films. This does not have to happen. It is done for effect, or it is done because she doesn’t know what she’s doing.

Other Myths

Another myth I want to dispel is that a guy can’t tell the difference between a regular blowjob and deepthroat. This is flat out untrue. Since most of the sensation of the penis is at the head, getting the head into her throat does enhance the sensation as it enters her tight throat. And while it is easy to get a bad or lazy blowjob, it is tough to get bad deepthroat.

I might add to this post as time allows, but this is a good start. Now get back to work! I’d love to read some feedback from anyone trying this.

EDIT: Here is a nice link from a woman who has it down. I happened upon it be following a Fellatrix® link.

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  1. [...] I like a variety of blowjob techniques. I already mentioned deepthroat. There are two basic types of blowjobs: with and without using her hands. My first wife—who didn’t like to suck cock in the first place—could never figure out how to use her hands without punching herself in the face. Having only one approach is limiting. My current wife does it both ways. When we first met, she always used her hands. That’s how her previous boyfriend liked it. [...]

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  2. [...] Of course, my favourite is to receive deepthroat. Once a woman did that, I was hooked…not on her, but on deepthroat. Not all women are game to trying to deepthroat. Of course the ones who don’t like to suck cock in the first place are already out of the equation, but then so many are afraid of gagging. [...]

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  4. [...] Another 20% are interested in oral sex, fellatio and cunnilingus, with about a quarter of those specifically interested in deepthroat—how to do it and how to get your partner to do it. [...]

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  5. [...] So far, so good. She backed up her word with some action, and I not only had sex, I got some deepthroat. Admittedly, I would have preferred to lie back and receive a blowjob—deepthroat or otherwise, but it’s a compromise. She didn’t want anything in return. Maybe next time. [...]

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  6. I’m a 22-year-old female and I deepthroat my boyfriend on a regular basis. When I do, I always keep his cock in my mouth/throat throughout the process, even if I gag or spit up saliva or–this has happened a few times–puke. No matter what happens, I keep sucking his cock shaft until he finally cums deep inside my throat.

    Comment by Elaine Bradley — November 17, 2006 @ 12:48 am | Reply

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  7. Hmmm… I’d say if you are gagging, spitting up, or puking, you are not doing something right. Practise, I guess.

    Comment by myfavouritelife — November 17, 2006 @ 8:58 am | Reply

    • I’dsay you’re doing it damn right ;)

      Comment by Gemma — March 19, 2011 @ 4:44 pm | Reply

  8. [...] I should have guessed she had something in store for me, and I was pleasantly surprised. She started sucking my cock slowly, luxuriously, like she knows how to do and has done so many times before. Then was the surprise, she just kept going down, deeper, deeper, and deeper, all the way down her throat. It had been a while since she gave me deepthroat. What a more fitting time than for my birthday present. I don’t know if she had planned this all along, or decided it was just a perfect substitute for anal. Every time she took my cock down all the way, I felt like I would explode, but I didn’t. She would take me all the way down her throat, and then she would come up for air, and start the cycle again and again. At last, when I couldn’t hold back any longer—and she knew it—, she went all the way down one last time, and I came what felt like gallons. I grabbed the back of her head and held her in place until I finished cumming, which seems like forever—for the both of us, I am sure. When I let go, she surfaced, and took a deep breath. I could tell she was pleased to have delivered such a nice birthday gift. Of course, I was quite pleased, too. [...]

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  9. you’re fucking crazy, one day i’ll find men who like to do this, and i’ll do the same in their fucking throat i don’t believe that you will appreciate it.

    fucking sick people one day you will pay.

    8H.

    Comment by bam — October 22, 2007 @ 6:41 pm | Reply

  10. Things that make you go hmmm…

    Comment by myfavouritelife — October 23, 2007 @ 7:51 am | Reply

  11. Whoa 8H… your name spells hate backwards.

    Maybe you don’t like the idea of deep throating but some women do… To each there own.

    One thing I am curious about is men being turned on by the gagging… why is that?
    Is it just an association with the porn that they enjoy… is it a sadistic thing maybe?

    I can do a little deep throating, but I don’t really understand the attraction to gagging yet.

    Comment by Miss Tender — October 23, 2007 @ 12:33 pm | Reply

  12. Miss Tender,

    If you are gagging, you aren’t doing it right. Take a look at the “I’ll Gag” section in this post. I do know that some porn focuses on gagging women, but this is either because they don’t know how to do it correctly, or it is for dramatic effect for the guys (likely) into this.

    Thanks for visiting.

    Comment by myfavouritelife — October 23, 2007 @ 1:15 pm | Reply

  13. BTW, Miss Tender… I added you to my blogroll. I hope to see more from your blog. ;)

    Comment by myfavouritelife — October 23, 2007 @ 1:16 pm | Reply

  14. You did? I don’t see it… I’m also going to add you to mine. You are so prolific!

    Comment by Miss Tender — October 26, 2007 @ 8:51 am | Reply

  15. Damn! I had added your blog, but somehow it got changed to not visible. I fixed it. Doh!

    I used to read your blog, but you dropped off the radar in March. I can’t wait to see how it unfolds.

    Comment by myfavouritelife — October 26, 2007 @ 9:46 am | Reply

  16. Practically anyone gags the first time they deep throat. Deep throating is about suppressing the gag reflex. When I deepthroat my boyfriend I have to be in total control or I’ll gag.

    Comment by Mortality — November 8, 2007 @ 6:37 am | Reply

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  18. well 1st off its not right to make her gagg…an its not right too make her do it if she dosent want to but if shes willing to learn how to deepthroat..than thats ok..but i personanl wouldnt push her to do it…if shes not used to it take it slow at 1st..than ez into it

    Comment by tyrese — March 30, 2008 @ 2:56 pm | Reply

  19. I was 20 when I deepthroated my boyfriend the first time. He took it slow and eased his cock into my mouth, gradually sliding it past my tonsils and penetrating my throat. Because of the size of his cock, it was a very tight fit, and I actually did gag at first, causing me to spit up some very thick saliva. But I held my head steady, and he continued to slide his cock deeper into my throat. Once he got it all the way in, his balls were pressed against my lips, and he began to pump back and forth, fucking my throat. I couldn’t breathe, but he held my head in place, and continued to fuck my throat more vigorously. As I started to puke up some clear liquid, his thrusts became longer and stronger. I could feel his cock throbbing and twitching as he began to cum deep inside my throat. As his cock exploded with cum in my throat, I could feel my liquid puke oozing out of the corners of my mouth around the perimeter of his shaft.

    Comment by Joyce Ellen Craig — April 5, 2008 @ 11:56 am | Reply

  20. I’m 24 and I deepthroat my boyfriend a lot. It turns him on when I gag or puke from deepthroating, and I enjoy doing things to please him. I don’t mind puking. For me, it’s just a way of showing my devotion to him. He has told me that he appreciates how I’m willing to let him have his way with me like that, even to the point of my puking, in order for him to have the ultimate orgasm or two. As long as we do it in the shower or outside on the deck or on the backyard grass, it isn’t a big deal to clean up afterwards. My boyfriend’s cock, when erect, is about 11 inches long, so it does penetrate my throat quite deeply. However, if i’m relaxed and at the right angle, he is able to get his cock all the way in without too much difficulty. We often deepthroat like this long enough for him to cum twice, even if I puke in between. We don’t clean up after I puke. He just continues to slowly pump his cock back and forth inside my throat until he cums a second time. I guess some girls would be too squeamish to do what I do, but I really don’t mind it and I actually enjoy turning on my boyfriend in this way.

    Comment by Cherie Amet — July 6, 2008 @ 11:36 am | Reply

    • not so sure I’m doing this right but, I would like to share my deep throat practicing experience with you. maybe give a pointer either way as I have learned a few things that helps getting it down there… if you wanna trade a couple emails or so, please let me know…. thx

      Comment by stanley — December 1, 2009 @ 8:58 pm | Reply

      • I’m 34 & have never deepthroated a man. I’m now married a year & have tried it a couple of times but its like he’s hitting a wall at the back of my throat. I have tried to lay on my back with my head hanging off the bed, still, I cannot get the head into my throat.

        Comment by mccann — October 6, 2010 @ 6:30 pm

      • Help please lol gonna try again 2nite, I’ll let ya know how it goes…

        Comment by mccann — October 6, 2010 @ 6:42 pm

      • OK send me your email. I don’t know how this site works etc. i imagine you wanna be discrete about this? I just love to help you out….

        Comment by Anonymous — October 6, 2010 @ 8:38 pm

      • Ok I’m gonna have to get a toy to practice on I guess. I’m bound & determined to deepthroat my husband cause he DESERVES it! He tried to help me tonight, we tried all kinds of ways & its like he’s too big for my throat. Its just frustrating ;(

        Comment by mccann — October 6, 2010 @ 9:23 pm

      • krisluvsscott2@yahoo.com and thank you so much!

        Comment by mccann — October 6, 2010 @ 9:28 pm

      • My husband thinks I tighten my throat up because of gag reflex. I’ve lubbed him & my throat up & tried to align my throat with him & relax, then when its at the back of my throat, Ive tried sticking my tongue out while flattening it and still I can’t push it past.

        Comment by mccann — October 7, 2010 @ 9:13 pm

      • Ok I’m gonna get this…Ill let ya know how it goes & ty for all ur help! You’re very sweet ;-*

        Comment by mccann — October 8, 2010 @ 8:52 am

      • Ugh it just isn’t happening for us. Maybe one day…

        Comment by mccann — October 8, 2010 @ 7:52 pm

      • lol yea I can get it back there no problem I just can’t wiggle it past just yet. Maybe my throat is too small? Seems like it’ll rip if I get it past? I dunno but thanks 4 tryin to help & good luck with tht 8-10 incher ouch ;-0 !!!

        Comment by mccann — October 9, 2010 @ 12:54 pm

      • He’s not curved at all, its straight ;-P & I will keep trying because I want him to experience it & it really turns me on… lol “licked” cute!

        Comment by mccann — October 9, 2010 @ 4:54 pm

      • We have sex like every other day & I practice everytime b4 hand so I will let u know! I haven’t tried in 69 position yet, this will be next! I don’t own a toy nor have I ever & I do want to get one to try but I do not see myself walking n2 a store 4 one as I am shy lol, any suggestions on an online site that’s good? There’s so many choices that its overwhelming! ;-O

        Comment by mccann — October 9, 2010 @ 8:06 pm

    • you rock!!

      Comment by joe — May 2, 2010 @ 4:34 am | Reply

      • I don’t know how big it is, maybe theirs a big head on it? Using Wet lubricant works really good… I like the pina colada flavor and it makes things soooooo slippery…. lube it up, get it to the back of your throat and imagine your throat being a big gaping hole, then push on it and keep focused and it should slide right down till your lips touch the tummy…… Mmmmmmmmm !!

        Comment by stanley — October 6, 2010 @ 9:34 pm

      • Sticking my tongue out never did anything for me. I suggest you practice with a jelly 6 inch toy. If you can push the toy up against the back of your throat without gagging then you have it licked, sort of….. For me, the mind really is the key. You really want to do it , so you have to put your mind in deep throat mode…… get that yummy thing to the back of your throat ( lubed up ) and focus on pushing it down there. Maybe think ( and keep that thought ) this is ” Going to Happen ” and just go for it, but easy, a nice gentle and consistent push. 7 inches isn’t too big unless its super thick? Going back to the gag thing: if you can get it to the back without gagging, you should have no problem getting it down the throat…… you’ll get it sooner or later….. keep trying….

        Comment by stanley — October 7, 2010 @ 9:42 pm

      • I’m sorry to hear that. If I was there maybe I’d show you how! ha ha ha…… I’d just love the challenge of doing a big 8-10 inch someday, anyways……… I don’t know what to say for now. If you can push that sweet thing up against the back of your mouth without gaging, then it should be easy at that point? Especially with lube? WTF ? Keep trying……

        Comment by stanley — October 8, 2010 @ 8:06 pm

      • I don’t think your opening is too small. If the pleasure stick is curved upwards when its hard, you might wanna position yourself 69. That way the curvature is better for throat entry, like, curved to go around the natural curvature of your throat just where it starts…. keep trying because the day you accomplish the task is soooooo exciting! If you have no gag reflex when its pushing up against the back of your mouth, you have more than half of the art of deep throat ” licked ” …..

        Comment by stanley — October 9, 2010 @ 2:49 pm

      • well I guess straight is better than curved the wrong way ( wrong way uncommon I think ) I did a tranny that was straight and 6 and a half and it was too easy. Yes, keep trying because its so much a turn on when you can do it. I haven’t practiced for awhile with my 8 inch toy but at one point I could stroke, deep throat repeatedly about 8-10 times in a row, then stop to gasp for air….. man, I’d sure like to do a real one that big….. If you keep trying you’ll be sure to achieve the fine art of deep throat…. keep it up ( and keep him up ! ) Yummy !

        Comment by stanley — October 9, 2010 @ 5:27 pm

      • I wanted to add that at one time I tried the method of laying back on my bed with my head hanging over, and lubed up my big toy and tried to enter my throat. It did go in but it was a little difficult for me. I guess I’m so used to being on my knees and taking it in front of me, that the laying on my back thing, was kinda awkward and didn’t work so well. Keep in mind, I can do this on my knees so I’m sure you can do. Please don’t give up because I think its worth the effort, and I would be pleased to hear the good news one day of you mastering this exciting talent…. thx

        Comment by stanley — October 9, 2010 @ 5:39 pm

      • Yeah, when I said 69 I meant for you to be on top. I think that would work best as you’ll be more comfortable I think, a straight shot for you to take it in the throat. So I guess you’re a little shy? Well I am too but I went into a store once and a nice Asian young lady worked there and it was real easy for me. That’s where I got my big Calley toy, with suction cup. ( I got my 6 inch jelly from a nice girl I know ) . Yeah, maybe google adult toys or something and look around? I think people who work in xxx shops are easy to deal with and I wouldn’t worry about anything there…… sometimes you have to take a challenge and just go for it, and if you do you’ll feel better for it I think? Its no big deal, real easy…. Make sure you get something pliable like a jelly toy or something like that. I have a 6 inch like I said and its so easy to deep throat. Its smooth and has a nice ridge on it like the head of a real yummy cock… just love it…

        Comment by stanley — October 9, 2010 @ 11:26 pm

      • btw… you shouldn’t have to spend anything over 20 bux ( maybe 12-15 ) for a 6 inch jelly toy with a suction cup for mounting. Take a new adventure and enter a xxx store and shop around…. you’ll have fun I’m sure..

        Comment by stanley — October 9, 2010 @ 11:32 pm

  21. I work for a law firm in the DC metro area as a legal assistant. I’m 22 years old. Last summer, after working a bit late one evening, I made out with a first-year associate of the firm. We were in his office, but his door was closed and locked. I wound up taking off my blouse and bra, and he started to suck on my nipples. Then, he asked me to get on my knees, which I did. He undid his pants and asked me to open my mouth wide. Then, he placed his cock in my mouth, held the back of my head, and forced his cock all the way into my throat. I started to gag a bit, but I wanted to please him so I sucked his shaft while his cock began to fuck my throat. After about 5 minutes of deepthroating, I puked up some liquid from my stomach, which dribbled down my chin and onto my breasts and skirt. But I did not stop sucking his cock the whole time. I kept sucking his vomit-covered shaft and made him cum inside my throat.

    Comment by Jennifer Wieand — August 26, 2008 @ 11:16 pm | Reply

  22. even if a girl has deepthroat skills and a very small gag reflex you can still get them to gag.

    the trick is to get your dick in as far as it will go, then push in firmly with your hips. leave it in there for a few seconds and then pull back just until the point where the pressure is off then hump repeatedly back into her throat with the full pressure you used to hit the end. you will likely have to hold her head pretty hard, as most girls will gag pretty badly from this. you will need to be careful not to get too carried away with the force of your strokes. you can bruise her throat if it goes in on the wrong angle.

    this is best tried first in the position where she is on her back with her head hanging backwards off the edge. next you can try it with her head on your stomach or her kneeling in front of you.

    once you do this to her a few times, you can progress to using longer strokes and faster pumps. be careful of her teeth with the longer strokes.

    happy throat humping!

    Comment by THORAT — September 13, 2008 @ 10:27 am | Reply

  23. oh yeah, and make sure that she hasn’t eaten for at least 2 hours before unless you are into vomit. which i am not.

    Comment by THORAT — September 13, 2008 @ 10:35 am | Reply

  24. When I deepthroat my boyfriend, we use whipped cream to fill my mouth beforehand. The sweetness and fragrance of the whipped cream makes it more tolerable for me to have my throat fucked for 15 or 20 minutes, even if I vomit several times in the process. This way, I can keep on sucking his cock and taking it deep into my throat, no matter how much or how often I might puke. It’s actually very thrilling to submit myself to him in this way. It shows him how much I am willing to endure to pleasure him, and I know that it really turns him on to watch me sucking on his shaft even after I have just puked.

    Comment by Amanda Heffelfinger — September 29, 2008 @ 9:04 pm | Reply

    • dream girl right here.

      Comment by teehee — August 18, 2010 @ 10:57 am | Reply

  25. Lame

    Comment by myfavouritelife — September 30, 2008 @ 6:08 am | Reply

  26. Some of these comment stink…I don’t belive that women would go to such exstreme as puking to satisfy thair boyfreind. This is some sick wirdo gay mans writing.

    Comment by Anonymous — December 28, 2008 @ 1:41 am | Reply

  27. LMAO at #9…LMAO!!! LOL!!

    Comment by Anonymous — December 29, 2008 @ 2:20 am | Reply

  28. ok so I can understand (a little) why guys would like it when a girl gags because it make them feel big but to enjoy it when she throws up and continuing after she’s thrown up on you? That’s just really really disgusting.

    Comment by L — January 7, 2009 @ 7:51 am | Reply

  29. Haha. These comments are great. To answer some of the questions about gagging…I think its incredibly sexy when a women submits completely like that. My girlfriend deepthroats me all the time but doesn’t like to gag so I don’t make her, but it gets pretty sloppy because her mouth waters a lot. Its great because that type of spit is nice and thick and super slick. It makes the whole thing even better.

    Anyways as to why I like gagging…umm I really don’t know, but its hot. I honestly wouldn’t mind it if she puked on my dick. I just like it when its nice and messy…and yeah the thick spit and yes puke would be warm and pleasurable.

    Another thing…the sound and the involuntary jerking is kind of a turn on too. Its like she is trying so hard to please that she makes a total mess of herself. Its just selfless on her part and it makes you feel manly to have that kind of power over a woman and then later totally pamper her and treat her like a queen. I mean she let’s me shove my cock down her throat and then orgasm in her mouth and then swallows my babies…umm yeah I’m gonna do everything for her…it isn’t a one way deal.

    And btw I love eating her out for hours and I give my girl gspot orgasms and clitoral orgasms so I reciprocate very well…

    Sorry for being so scatterbrained in this post. Writing this from my cellphone at work over 30 mins…to sum it all up, its very sexy to watch a girl swallow your johnson and if she wretches while she does it its even better. Puking isn’t required but if it happens then its nice to push the envelope. It isn’t gross and the fact that my cock caused it gives a rush of power. Don’t knock it before you try it.

    And for gods sake, eat her pussy and fuck her right if you expect this type of head on a regular basis.

    Comment by Mr. Marcus — April 4, 2009 @ 12:39 pm | Reply

    • Yea guys take his advice when a woman enjoys sucking man’s cock it is because he pleases her and seduces her into doing anything to please him and she loves being submissive to him it’s the best sex ever

      Comment by Anonymous — December 18, 2011 @ 8:34 pm | Reply

  30. #26, WTF?
    gay men like to have sex, too.
    I’m all man…for me, the notion of having sex
    with a woman is as weird as gay sex may seem to you.
    Your disapproval doesn’t change anything.

    I’ve met more than a few sick weirdos in my life.
    Most of them were not gay.
    Don’t be so judgmental about something
    because you are unfamiliar, ignorant or fearful of it.

    I would like to spice things up with
    my husband(partner to you phobes) of 9 years
    with some deep throat.
    (he can already do this to me…i’d like to
    return the favor, because a blowjob feels SOOOO
    much better when you can fuck it ALL the way down).

    So… thanks to those who post how-to hints and instructions
    without the moral judgements or junior socio-political commentary.

    Comment by b — October 31, 2009 @ 7:57 am | Reply

  31. I’m so fascinated with deep throat that I’m practicing at home with things and lubricant, and preparing myself for my first tranny experience…. when I’m ready, I want the real thing right down my throat. A seven inch lady cock at the least in size…. think I would just love it!

    Comment by stanley — December 1, 2009 @ 8:39 pm | Reply

  32. Well its been awhile and I haven’t seen a tranny yet but may very soon. I’ve graduated big time as I can now deep throat a 8 inch Cally toy all the way. Just like they say, it takes practice. Wet lubricant works very well to help slide that big thing down my throat and it still excites me every time I do it. I think the most important thing is to ” visualize ” or focus your mind on your throat being open, and think, ” this is going to go, real easy with no problem ” and it indeed, becomes no problem. In other words, you really need to put your mind to it. I have to say, after a few times every practice, my gag reflex starts to act up a little. Its OK at first, then becomes more sensitive. So I just wait a few minutes and it is easy again to deep throat all the way. Maybe its just me, I dunno, but I have a good control not to throw up. If my gag reflex gets the better part of me, I just tighten up and refuse to throw up, and of course, it helps to do this on a stomach somewhat empty. That’s another thing to focus on…. no matter what, just tighten up and refuse to throw up, and in my case, I never have.
    Deep throating still fascinates me and think my first time with the real thing, will be my most intense and satisfying sexual experience I will ever have…

    Comment by stanley — March 12, 2010 @ 1:05 am | Reply

  33. I have read just about all of these blog and I must say as a married man ( to a woman) it is very refreshing to hear what some of you have stated about this subject. Let me add that I’m saying this because I’m a man it’s because I love to please my wife in every fashion and I want her to do the same but she has certain reservations when it comes to sex …not just oral but sex as a whole. To me it’s somewhat frustrating but I love her and to hear some of you use words like submit to pleasuring him, wanting to show him I love him and wanting to please him honestly I like hearing that.
    I’m not a man that only wants to rcv but I love to give and give and I just want that same desire shown towards myself. When we do engage (which is not that often)it is very nice don’t get me wrong ;I just want more of it and for longer length of time. It’s good for relaxation and stress relief as well as just letting your man know you love him just that much to give him this type of pleasure as he needs or wants.

    Comment by TONY — May 28, 2010 @ 1:43 pm | Reply

  34. I’ve had the opportunity to see two tranny’s now, and found deep throat very exciting and very easy to do, piece of cake….. in comparison to the practice with my toys, the reaL thing ( nice hard cock ) was even easier to do. The real thing is smoother and much more accommodating to my throat, mind you they were seven inches which is moderate in size. So after all the practice I have done, the art of deep throat is something I have acquired to do and consider it as no big deal in the way of being challenging. It’s time to move on and find a large size to test my talents and further my adventures. I’m kinda fussy as I’m only into the real feminine tranny’s, but am sure I’ll find the right one for my fantasy….. I always remember one thing with deep throat, I think the most part of it is will power above most else. Of course a lot of practice is essential, but over cumming the gag reflex is available if you really want to, Their was a time when I thought, “no way”, I can’t do this, but eventually I did…. and now I have fun !!

    Comment by stanley — July 6, 2010 @ 11:35 pm | Reply

    • Oh & he’s about 7 inches, not sure of diameter but its not a pencil lol…

      Comment by mccann — October 7, 2010 @ 9:19 pm | Reply

  35. I enjoy doing it but still need a little practice. One thing though, I really love the thick saliva you get from deepthroating – it’s the best lube ever! But I never hear anyone talk about using that thick saliva as lube. All those sites where people ask what to use for spontaneous anal sex, nobody says try deepthroating the guy first! They just say to use spit which is totally different stuff and hardly any use as lube… I don’t understand that.

    Comment by Salientrant — November 1, 2010 @ 1:01 pm | Reply

    • It is good lube!

      Comment by mccann — November 8, 2010 @ 6:52 pm | Reply

    • Yeah I’ve heard of that before and yes it is the best lube I’m sure. For me I find that Wet-lube is an instant lube and I can deep throat right away. With natural, you have to deep throat a little to get things working and things get better after awhile. But then again for me, I deep throat real good at first and then the back of my mouth gets touchy, or more sensitive and my gag reflex starts acting up. A good throat spray helps me with this and then I’m good to go again with a couple dozen strokes. If your natural lube works good then stay with it I guess? Spit isn’t the same as what is back there ( your throat ) as what is back there is really slippery for sure Keep practicing and I’m sure you’ll get better & better like I did..

      Comment by Anonymous — November 8, 2010 @ 7:36 pm | Reply

      • I had a woman invite me to sleep at her place on the first date. She was only the second woman able to deep throat me. She excused her self for a minute and came back with some olive oil in a paper cup. That worked very well and did not have an objectional taste for her. Vegitable oil would work and is available in most homes.

        Comment by Tom — April 8, 2012 @ 10:58 pm

  36. btw, I can’t wait to suck and deep throat my next tranny cock !

    Comment by stanley — November 8, 2010 @ 7:37 pm | Reply

    • It still hasn’t happened for us. :(

      Comment by mccann — November 9, 2010 @ 12:41 pm | Reply

  37. I am a woman who loves to deepthroat, and has been doing it damn well for years. I just need to say HOWEVER not everything in this article is true!!
    Even after years and many times you can still gag! It may occur far less, and you can become amazing at repressing it. But if something unexpected happens mid surpressing a gag, theres no helping yourself you are going to puke. SO you’ve been warned, if you want your woman to continue to love deep throating be gentle. TAKE HER LEAD, and remember she is not a porn star!!
    I dont care what this article says porn stars can do things to an extent normal woman can’t. Maybe it’s as simple as they used throat numbing spray before the scene, and this can be replicated. Just don’t expect it to take more practice or tools than you see in a porn!

    Comment by love2 — December 16, 2010 @ 8:27 pm | Reply

  38. hey. im a man (20) i wanna make my girlfriend do deepthroat. she have tryed some times but she says she cant do it cause of the gag reflex. normaly we do 69. any tip how to convince her? and how to make it easier for her? think my dream orgasm would be in a throat.
    does the numb spray helps alot ? thank you.

    Comment by unknown — January 6, 2011 @ 3:27 pm | Reply

  39. 69 is not a good position for deepthroat, and everyone worries about gagging. The best way for beginners if for her lay on her back to hang her head over the edge of the bed to create a straight path. Numbing spray is not necessary, though a little oil or lube might help.

    Comment by myfavouritelife — January 7, 2011 @ 9:38 am | Reply

    • When you have her in the position, with her head hanging off the bed, with her mouth and throat in a straight line, have her fuck herself with a dildo/vibrator. I found that when my ex was so turned on and at the verge of cumming, she seemed to lose her gag reflex and I was able to push in much more deeply. I never got it into her throat, but looking back I think that there were times I could have done it, if I had kept pushing just as she was starting to cum.

      Comment by Tom — April 8, 2012 @ 11:07 pm | Reply

  40. I started deepthroating when I was 14, and I agree that lying on my back with my head over the edge of the mattress is the best position. It gives the guy a straight path, so he is able to insert his entire cock into my mouth and throat even if he is 10 or 11 inches long. It’s also true that while I have learned to control my gag reflex with practice, sometimes I still gag, cough up saliva, or even puke. So it’s smart to place a bucket next to the bed directly beneath where my head is hanging upside down. That being said, when I’m deepthroating a guy, I focus entirely on his pleasure and I always continue to suck on his shaft, no matter what is happening, without stopping or even pausing for a second. If I gag, or cough up saliva, or puke several times, I keep sucking on his shaft as if everything is perfect because I am totally focused on his pleasure and getting him to cum inside my throat. Usually, I don’t puke, but occasionally I might puke once or twice during the act. If that happens, I just go with the flow, and if anything it just makes the whole experience that much hotter because of the intensity of it all. It also really turns on the guy to watch me earnestly and eagerly sucking his shaft even as I am puking through the corners of my mouth onto my cheeks, nose, eyes, temples, and hair. The excess puke just dribbles down toward the bucket, so the mess is minimal and really no big deal. And after the guy cums in my throat, sometimes I will ask him to pee on my face to rinse off any remaining puke into the bucket. Sometimes, I’ll be so horny after he pees on my face that, afterwards, I’ll get up off of the bed, get on all fours on the floor, dunk my face into the bucket of puke, cum, and piss, and let him fuck me from behind, going A2P2A (ass-to-pussy-to-ass) for maybe 15 minutes until he cums at least once in each hole. Deepthroating is fantastic, but it’s even more pleasurable when you’re willing to relax and experience this full range of sensations while focusing on pleasing your guy.

    Comment by nicole — January 26, 2011 @ 8:22 am | Reply

    • you are a freak, i love it

      Comment by dave — December 30, 2011 @ 1:49 pm | Reply

    • Kudos to you, but my god I could never do that. Deep throating, no problem. Getting puke and any other bodily fluids, can’t do it.

      Comment by Sydney — January 31, 2012 @ 1:58 pm | Reply

  41. my wife loves to deepthroat and she is verygood at it. im new at this whole computer thing so i want to chat with others about it. would love to watch my wife deepthroat another guy

    Comment by frazier — April 5, 2011 @ 6:45 am | Reply

  42. Hi, some girls will enjoy doing this and good on them! It’s nice to do stuff you know your partner enjoys, I myself came on here to see if any advice could help improve my……gifts to my man, (not that they need it).

    However I was unsurprised and irritated to find a few comments made by some men that things such as blowjobs and anal are an expectation. Women DON’T expect to receive oral sex so neither should you, and unless it is something previously discussed and agreed between the both of you (e.g she enjoys it too) things like head grabbing and forcing it down is disrespectful and actually classed as sexual violence.

    Another point is why is it deemed appropriate that you guys EXPECT anal? Again, if she enjoys it too and wants it then that’s great! However it shouldn’t be expected, it’s not a standard. You’re not entitled to blow jobs and anal sex, you’re not entitled to vaginal sex either! No one is entitled to any sexual acts from others. Just, swicth your perspective up a bit, I have many male friends who expect anal sex for birthdays etc, however, none of them would take anal penetration from their partner if they were asked!

    Just because we have these areas on our body, it doesn’t mean you’re entitled to put your penis in them. Just bear that in mind! Don’t force things on your partner, think how you would feel if the situation was reversed

    Comment by Fair — June 6, 2011 @ 4:24 am | Reply

    • Two days ago I had really rough sex with a guy. He throat fucked me twice, choked me, and I deep throated three times. I gagged multiple times and after ten or fifteen minutes of his cock in my throat I threw up. I wiped it up, kept going and it was great. He gave just as good as he got by the way. We talked about what we wanted to do before, he still asked permission and kept making sure I was ok. He was also very grateful.

      Comment by LaLa — January 17, 2012 @ 3:50 am | Reply

    • You are right; no woman should be forced or neccessarily expected to do something she doesn’t want to do, bu tmen have options as well. I would never marry a woman who would put limits on what she would do for me sexually. Of course I don’tmean injuring her or forcing her to service other men. I would go to extremes to please her and woud expect the same from her.

      Comment by Tom — April 8, 2012 @ 11:17 pm | Reply

  43. Hi Fair,

    I think you are missing the point here. A woman does not have to give sex—vaginal, oral, or anal—to anyone. Many guys are not into all of these things anyway. The point is to find someone with whom you are compatible. If you are not into anal sex, be up-front about it. If a guy “insists” on it, badgering you all the time, tell him it’s time to move on to someone who is into it. The point is that if you are with a guy who expects it and you are unwilling to do it, it is up to you to tell him to hit the road or just walk away. It is not fair for you to expect someone unwilling to make a change for you and at the same time be unwilling to change for him. This sounds like an incompatibility and time for a new partner.

    As for forced head and so on, I am not into this either, and I agree with you. However, some people are into this, and if he wants to and she wants to, so be it. As the saying goes: safe, sane, consensual.

    Comment by myfavouritelife — June 21, 2011 @ 7:55 am | Reply

  44. I didn’t even know about deepthroat until about a month ago when my partner and I were watching some porn and you could see the guy’s cock bulging in the woman’s neck! I heard my partner really excitedly draw his breath in. I turned to him and said, “Would you like to do that to me?!” He said, “Yeah! But wouldn’t it make you vomit?” I replied, “*She’s* not vomiting! I bet all the lessons on how to do it can be found on the internet!” And so I read a whole lot about it, got the throat anaesthetic, the extra lubricant and away we went! It took me about seven or eight tries before my brain accepted that the gag reflex was a wasted effort and stopped doing that … so that now we can do it just like the pornstars!

    My partner was always worried and hesitant that it wasn’t nice for me in the beginning and kept stopping and pulling out and asking me if it was ok – the thing is it felt fantastic, it was really good fun and he saw that I meant it and so felt confident to keep on going knowing I would make some kind of sign if it was bad. BUT I absolutely loved it. And I absolutely loved that he was getting more pleasure from this than anything else. For that reason alone I could and would do it all night! And the strange thing is, although we thought our sexlife was fantastic before, it has opened up a whole new ballpark of fun and fantasy and adventure and is better than ever.

    I have come up with a theory that if you trust and love one another 100% so that your fantasies – no matter what – can be shared without any fuss or allowing them to mean anything so that he will always feel safe and know that he *is* safe to express them (VERY IMPORTANT NEVER TO BREAK THIS RULE – NOT EVEN ONCE) and then you dress up and have lots of fun with that (wigs, makeup , clothing etc!) and live these fantasies out together, you enter in to an infinite world of possibility limited only by your imagination so that there really is no need for a man to ever get bored with his wife or vice versa. These fantasies can be very healing too because the brain doesn’t distinguish whether they are real or not – so long as your imagination lets you believe it is true the brain thinks it’s true. For example, one time I pretended I was the girl who rejected him when he was a teenager and traumatised those important early years for him, by dressing up to look like her then acting out a scene where she comes to visit him at his house ….. he can then choose an infinite number of endings for this depending on how he feels..he might decide to humiliate her (like she did to him!) or to fulfill the dreams of his youth and make love to her (more usually the ending but he can choose to do this in a huge number of ways). With deepthroat, though, listen to this for it becoming a most useful part of a healing fantasy…his ex had always refused to give him oral sex except for once or twice for about three microseconds and it had become almost an obsession for him to the point it was all he wanted but never got. BUT now I can do deepthroat, we have had the most enormous fun pretending I am her (wearing one of her old tops he still has, a wig, makeup etc!) , putting on one of those metal force-you-to-open-your-mouth sex toys, tying me to the bed with my head hanging over the edge where he gets all that past hurt and pain she caused him out of his system by just absolutely fucking the daylight out of her mouth! There is humour in it (black maybe) but it works. I love it; he loves it; and it is bloody good fun! (I am sure the PC do-gooders will take objection to this but ask yourself, who does it hurt? and who does it heal?)

    The paradox of giving – that it brings more joy than receiving most times and to serve is more rewarding than to lord it over people. (“There are those that give with pain -and that pain is their baptism, those that give with joy,and that joy is their reward, and there are those that give as yonder myrtle breathes its fragrance in to space and through these the eye of God shines…” The Prophet) This is especially for Tony’s wife – Tony who posted above.

    Comment by Sally — July 25, 2011 @ 5:43 am | Reply

    • You ae an amazing and loving wife. If Iever remarry, I hope it is to someone with your giving attitude.

      Comment by Tom — April 8, 2012 @ 11:27 pm | Reply

  45. Number 30 please shut up with your gay stories. Save that for a gay site.

    Comment by Moderator — August 28, 2011 @ 2:15 pm | Reply

  46. OMG I tried that laying on the bed thing and my boyfriend loved it.

    Comment by Anonymous — September 10, 2011 @ 10:18 pm | Reply

  47. I want table to do this without gagging but if im giving him head and the tip of his penis touches the back of my throat i instantly start to gag and my eyes water and everything so if i follow what u say step by step it should work right?!?!?

    Comment by Britt — November 18, 2011 @ 6:56 pm | Reply

  48. i never fuck girl n ma lyf………. sm1 gaive a girl plzzz

    Comment by Anonymous — December 15, 2011 @ 10:15 pm | Reply

  49. Hey, its me again, Stanley… I haven’t been on this page for some time but am still an avid deep throater. As I’ve indicated before, I have a thing for tranny’s, because I just love sucking cock and deep throating, its my greatest sexual stimulating experience. I don’t like men, and so the tranny side of things gives me the chance to explore my fetish, as I love the feminine characteristics of a shemale. Although I have only seen a few, and haven’t had the opportunity for a few months now, I have an opportunity to see one very HOT looking Babe in the next day or two. In others words, I have a HOT date cumming up. So what? Well, as it seems apparent to me, and after corresponding with her, it looks like I may have a chance to fulfill my greatest fantasy, taking her cum as she lets it all go into my throat! Fk, I’m so hard right now thinking about it! After all this time, deep throat is still something I enjoy very much and their is still new horizons to explore as I have just mentioned. I took out my jelly toy last night to check out my gag reflex and did OK with it, so what I’m saying here is, after all this time ( 3 months ) my mind can still control my gag reflex. A little out of practice perhaps, but can still easily deep throat my six incher. To each their own I guess, but deep throat is certainly worth the time and practice for some. Imagine, the first time, to plunge down all the way at moment of ejaculation and totally take in that juicy sweet stuff we can CUM !

    Comment by Stanley — January 29, 2012 @ 1:40 pm | Reply

  50. I like it

    Comment by Sarah — February 1, 2012 @ 2:38 pm | Reply

    • thank you Sarah

      Comment by Stanley — February 1, 2012 @ 3:11 pm | Reply

  51. wow these comments are absolutely hilarious. Especially the girl with the bucket. I couldn’t stop laughing. I love to have cock in my throat however I have only deep throat for a short period of time . I can’t wait til I can just have my face fucked like a pro. My previous bf was too afraid to fuck my face or spank me, bite me, anything. Me and my bf go to swingers club and I would love to have him deep throat me In front of all the couples and make everyone gather around to watch and be jealous. :)

    Comment by Hollywood — February 7, 2012 @ 5:51 pm | Reply

  52. This is stupid no man deserves this, seriously in a life time of men treating women like crap and giving half assed head I’ve never met one that deserved to be treated this good. It’s verging on sad the lengths women will go to to please a man especially if that man doesn’t reciprocate, which is usually the case. Wanna let me jam my fist down your throat?

    Comment by kristy — February 27, 2012 @ 11:13 pm | Reply

    • I just love to reciprocate and do my best at giving face and tongue….. for as long as she likes

      Comment by Stanley — February 27, 2012 @ 11:20 pm | Reply

  53. It’s a shame that one of the most important things in a relationship, sex, is one of ther last things two people discuss when getting to know one another. If sex does not occur early in the relationship, it may be months invested, before the couple finds themselves in bed, only to discover that they are not compatible.
    I think it would be wise for a new couple the talk about all their likes, dislike and expectaions, well before they go to bed together.

    After 25 years of marriage and then divorce, I found a woman that absolutely loved to deepthroat for hours. We didn’t marry, for other reasons, but she sure spoiled me for other women. I know that I definetely want my next wife to do it all, oral, anal and enthusiastic deep throat. As one woman on here wrote, it’s importantfor the couple to share all their fantasies and play them out. That way neither of them willhave the desire tolook elsewhere to fullfill them.

    Comment by Tom — April 8, 2012 @ 11:44 pm | Reply

  54. Practically anyone gags the first time they deep throat. Deep throating is about suppressing the gag reflex. When I deepthroat my boyfriend I have to be in total control or I’ll gag.

    Comment by Manu — April 21, 2012 @ 3:54 am | Reply

  55. Personally, I dont enjoy sucking cock. I mean i’ll do it for the guy but only if the oral is resipricated. But id like to know the trick of not gagging, and no matter how much I practice I need to make him stop so I can breathe

    Comment by Brianna — May 2, 2012 @ 9:55 pm | Reply

  56. Last night, I was making out with my boyfriend here in my apartment. I had sucked his cock many times before, but last night he did something different. As I lay on my back on my bed with my head hanging upside down over the edge of the mattress, he pushed his cock deeper into my mouth than ever before. It went so deep that I gagged a bit as it penetrated my throat. As he thrust back and forth inside my throat, I could hear him moan with pleasure, and that turned me on so much. I started to cough up saliva as I sucked on his shaft, and his thrusting went even deeper into my throat. As he sawed back and forth, I sucked on his shaft with a singular focus to try to make him cum, and I kept bobbing my head to and fro as I slowly began to puke repeatedly. As his cock pumped back and forth in my throat, my puke oozed out of the corners of my mouth and onto my cheeks, eyes, and hair. I never thought I would ever even think of doing such a thing, but I found myself so into the moment that I didn’t mind it at all. My only concern was to help my boyfriend have the utmost pleasure while I sucked his cock, and I didn’t have any reservations about puking while he fucked my throat. Have any other women had a similar experience?

    Comment by Sharon — July 7, 2012 @ 9:06 am | Reply

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    Comment by Vistarini Chacko — September 20, 2012 @ 1:27 pm | Reply

  58. Ugh… I can never breath and he holds my head down there which seems like forever. I enjoy it because he does. He actually thinks I prefer doing that over anything else. My question is when everything is done and over with, I’ve swallowed… Does he get turned off if there is a mess? Is there such a thing as to much saliva/lube

    Comment by Megan — March 29, 2013 @ 10:00 pm | Reply

  59. My boyfriend loves when I cough up saliva or even puke a mess onto my chin, neck, and breasts during deepthroat sex. He says it’s a turn-on for him to see me coughing up saliva or puking because it shows that I am totally dedicated to pleasuring him during deepthroat sex, no matter what. And now that I know that it turns him on, it actually makes me totally excited to deepthroat his cock with complete abandon. When his 11-inch erect cock begins to penetrate my throat, both he and I know that I am going to continue sucking on his shaft for an hour or longer, allowing him to continuously thrust his cock back and forth deep inside my throat for that entire time, and we both know that I will not pause or stop sucking his shaft for even a moment during that hour or two — even if I cough up large amounts of thick saliva and even if I repeatedly puke. Our understanding is that, no matter what, I will keep sucking his cock while he fucks my throat, and if I puke multiple times, I will just keep on bobbing my head up and down with his shaft in my mouth, allowing my own puke to ooze out of the corners of my mouth, while the tip of his cock continues to thrust deep inside my throat. Of course, this means that I will almost certainly suck and swallow some of my own puke in the process, and the puke that oozes out of the corners of my mouth will trickle onto other parts of my head and body. If I am on my knees, my puke will trickle onto my chin, neck, breasts, stomach, pussy, and thighs. On the other hand, if I am with my head upside down during throat-fucking, my puke will trickle from the corners of my mouth onto my cheeks, eyes, forehead, and hair. Usually, during a single deepthroat session, I now puke between 8-15 times over the course of about 90 minutes. It’s messy, but neither of us mind because we are deepthroat-fucking in a place that is easy to clean up afterward, such as a shower stall, or the backyard deck of his house, or on the diving board of his swimming pool, or on the hood of his car, or on the base or steps of a statue in a public park late at night. When my boyfriend watches me sucking on his shaft while I am repeatedly puking, he says it really turns him on because he can see that I am totally into it, sucking and swallowing my own puke, allowing some of my own puke to trickle onto myself, and sacrificing my own ability to breathe in order to make sure that I am maximizing his pleasure with my sucking action during each thrust of his cock into my mouth and throat. While I’m puking and sucking on his shaft at the same time, I am focused on listening to his moans of pleasure, and that helps me to stay focused and to bob my head even harder as I take his shaft deeply into my throat, listening for his moans of pleasure to become even louder. For me, as a 19-year-old girl, it is the most thrilling thing I have ever experienced. We have deepthroat sex about 7-10 times a week, and between sessions I am already looking forward to the next one.

    Comment by Liz — September 27, 2013 @ 11:35 am | Reply

  60. My girlfriend Kelly enjoys deepthroat sex. She can hold her breath for a long time while I am thrusting inside her throat.

    Comment by J David Ake — September 28, 2013 @ 7:59 am | Reply


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