No, I don’t wish to be called Loretta. I am talking about real women. I recieved some comments and email regarding a woman who wasn’t getting as much, let us say, action as she might prefer. In fact, she has since posted about it in her blog. Her issue related to selection rather than availability. I have to say, women have it a lot easier than men when it comes to dating, if you regard trolling for sex partners as dating. The primary advantage women have over men? Vaginas. Plain and simple.
In most situations, and for most men—and I am not talking about George Clooney or Brad Pitt or someone—, if a woman asks him “Would you fuck me?” or “Could I suck your cock?” he is not going to refuse. She doesn’t have to be a raving beauty, and she doesn’t have to be thin as a rail. She has a vagina and she is making it available. Who’s going to refuse? Not most men.
What’s with the cocksucking, then, if it is all about vaginas? That’s easy. It seems, like me, most guys want to recieve a blowjob from a person bearing a vagina. I don’t want to get too far into my anal sex tangent, but for the guys into anal sex, it is because the asshole has a pussy for a neighbour is what makes him not gay. The same goes for blowjobs. It’s the presence of her vagina. It is not necessarily having to use it or even have access to it—at least in the short term.
I remember my wife telling me about one of her past boyfriends who always wanted blowjobs. She dated this guy for over a year and sucked his cock almost exclusively. Worse yet, he wouldn’t reciprocate for her. I can’t believe she took so long to ditch this guy. Oh well. I had a similar experience of getting head almost exclusively, too, but this was someone who wasn’t very fuckable, as I write elsewhere in this blog. The difference is that my wife is extremely fuckable—though she gives outstanding head, too.
What about the breasts? Well, breasts are nice, too, but on their own, I don’t think they would do it. So, what about Being a Man? Some other tme, I suppose.