My Favourite Life

December 6, 2006

Blowjobs and Swallowing

Filed under: Anal Sex,Blowjobs,Fellatio,oral sex,Pussy,Sex,shaven — myfavouritelife @ 1:33 pm

As I have written before, I met my wife, Grace, during a menage-à-trios with my then-girlfriend, Sandra. So, in a sense, we had had sex before we ever started dating. Sex wouldn’t happen again for some four to five months hence. Our first encounter was focused on me. The two girls were going to please me. I got an erotic massage by the two of them, but once I saw her nude body my interest was in Grace.

As one would expect with a massage, they started on my back—fairly typical, but then it was time to roll over. My girlfriend sighed and commented that my cock wasn’t fully erect, but Grace—feeling the reaction was uncalled for—immediately took matters into her own hands, er, mouth. That solved that. I still remember her full, soft lips and warm mouth on my cock. Sandra just sort of stepped out of the way and watched. She had hoped for some lesbian action, but it wasn’t to be as Grace did not find Sandra the least bit enticing.

Grace didn’t really know us—me—, so when she could tell I was getting ready to cum, she lay beside me. She wasn’t going to let me cum in her mouth, so she finished me off with a hand job. I remember well laying side by side on the bed trying to get as close to her as possible, playing with her ample breasts. I really wanted to cum on her body, but she seemed to be trying to either get into a better position to stroke my cock, which called for more separation. When I did cum, I moved closer and ejaculated on her breasts and stomach. It was like marking my territory, and in a manner of speaking, it worked.

I didn’t see her again until a few months later, and after a few months of flirting, I decided to ditch my old girlfriend and trade up. It was a couple of weeks before we had sex again. This time it would be regular sex, slow regular sex. I ate her until she came, and then we fucked. Wow! That was nice. The next time we had sex, she showed me how she could really suck cock. And this time she swallowed. Perfect.

Grace knew I also liked anal sex. She wasn’t too keen on it. She had only done it twice before with mixed results—one pleasant and one painful—but she wanted to demonstrate to me how much she wanted me. Luckily, the pleasant one was more recent, so she was willing to give it a go. After I ate her pussy the next time, she got on all fours and offered me her ass. What can I say? It was bliss. She also knew I preferred shaven pussies, so the next time we got togethershe offered me that surprise—although, as I have mentioned previously, she only shaved the bottom around her slit. My response was unprepared, and she was rather put off, but half-shaven pussies—either half, I suppose—just doesn’t do it for me. I guess some guys are into that landing strip thing and some guys aren’t.

Anyway, back to blowjobs. So we discussed her swallowing, and she said it was something she reserved for someone she was in love with. That’s one reason why she didn’t swallow during our first encounter. The problem with this, is that it set my expectations. A few years after we had been married, one night she decided not to swallow. In context with these expectations, I was upset. She also knew that I had an issue with my first wife, who never swallowed. This had been a major point of contention. I didn’t say anything that first time, but then she did it again the next time. Then I had to say something, that I was offended. She said she didn’t want to because she wasn’t in the mood, and why should I expect her to always have to swallow my semen? When I pointed out her statement of several years before—relating swallowing to love—, she said I took her out of context. In any case, I told her it made me feel bad —that it felt like she was rejecting me. Now she pretty much always swallows. I know it is psychological, but it is something I think many guys find important.

I was reading another blog the other day—I forget which one—, and some woman related a dream wherein she said she was all of a sudden no longer interested in swallowing. That made me think of this.

Well, by know I don’t know where I was going with this, but here it ends.

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