My wife has gone spiritual. This is not new, but she wants me to go along with her. Arrrrrgh!!
As part of her spiritual journey, her libido has dropped almost to zero. Last night I broached the topic of Christmas nookie, and she said though she wasn’t in the mood, to just stick it in and get it over with. No massage. No cunnilingus. Just a quickie. That was fine. She said most guys would jump at the opportunity. I can take it now and again, but I wouldn’t want to go without eating pussy for too long.
So in Buddhism, there is a doctrine of non-attachment. She, so she says, has become non-attached to sex, and thinks it is liberating. She wishes I could feel the same liberation so we would be in sync. Of course, I was thinking she could sync up with me instead. She goes through phases like this now and again, so I am hoping it doesn’t last too long. When she gets in these moods, more exotic sex like anal and deepthroat get the back burner—not something I would look forward to.