My Favourite Life

December 27, 2006

Just a Blowjob

Filed under: Anal Sex,Blowjobs,Fellatio,oral sex,Pussy,Sex — myfavouritelife @ 9:14 am

I wanted some sex again last night, but my wife wasn’t in the mood—the trend as of late. She says, how ’bout I just give you a blowjob? Just a blowjob? Since when is a blowjob relegated to “just a blowjob.” Somehow, she devalues blowjobs to vaginal sex. I can live with that. From now on I can say, “I see your tired. How ’bout you just suck my cock, and we can go to sleep.” This can definitely work to my advantage. So, in her world, sex can be valued in order like this

  1. Anal
  2. Vaginal
  3. Oral
  4. Other (handjobs &c.)

She does put a premium on anal sex, besides it takes a bit of preparation. Vaginal sex is the baseline, and now oral falls below it, followed only by “other.” As for me, I think I might feel more like this:

  1. Oral
  2. Vaginal
  3. Anal
  4. Other

This means if she devalues oral, I should be able to create a win-win situation. She gets a bargain because she doesn’t have to fuck, and I get head more often. Of course, man does not live by head alone, but I could definitely live with more of it. The anla is the tougher one because although I would rather have vaginal or oral over anal, I still like it as a change every now and again. We could both live without the “Other,” methinks. Time will tell how this all falls out, especially in light of her push to spirituality.

The other concern I have is that head does not necessarily include things like deepthroat or swallowing. This stuff is extra. They happen when she is in the mood and are not included in “just a blowjob.” While a blowjob is in and of itself nice, it loses value without the strong ending—rather anti-climactic. I know I sound like a spoilt boy, and perhaps other guys are different; but not as far as I can tell by and large.

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