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My wife is picking up some of the habits of my first wife. My first wife insisted on having a “cum towel” under her whenever we had sex. She also insisted I shower and shave before sex. Well, the shaving was more my idea—especially when she was shaven—, as my beard is rather coarse. She took baths like three times a day—obsessive compulsive, really, but she usually shaved her pussy during the bath before bed, so she was typically silky smooth.
My wife now insists on a “cum sheet” under us we we have sex. It helps with the wet spots, and keeps impromptu anal sex accidents from ruining the regular sheet, if you catch my drift. Lately, she has been asking me to shower before bedtime—just in case. I guess the biggest difference is that my first wife and I had sex every night, almost without exception. Nowadays, my wife and I have sex about 2-3 times a week, so many of those times of showering and shaving would be wasted. it is even more important for her if she is going to suck my cock. She wants a clean cock. I guess this is normal, but it does impose a burden and diminishes spontaneity.
She likes to shower before having sex, too. I prefer a natural woman. I don’t want her scent and taste diluted—like Napoleon, I suppose. I mean, she is not a coal miner, so natural is better. Women, I feel, don’t see it this way, though I do know of some women that do prefer there construction worker mate to do it while he smells like a man.
So, I am wondering: am I making too big a deal out of this?