My Favourite Life

August 29, 2007

Break, Not Break

Filed under: Blowjobs,Fellatio,oral sex,Pussy,Sex — myfavouritelife @ 7:04 am

“What time is it?” she asks.

“9:35,” I reply, and she starts sucking my cock.

“Now what time is it?” She is finished.
“9:40.” She smiles.

So I am taking a break from my break. My wife has not been”in the mood” for sex the past month or so. She says she’ll let me know when she wants sex. Knowing that I haven’t lost my interest, she says she’ll just give me reciprocated head until she is ready. Perfunctory sex. Not the best, but I’ll take it. She has been shooting for the 30-second blowjob, but she hasn’t yet broken the 5-minute barrier. She’ll keep trying.

The last time we had “regular” sex was a couple of weeks ago, but I didn’t have time to blog it. She wasn’t in the mood then either. We had talked earlier about having sex, but she said she didn’t feel like cumming. I followed her into the bedroom and locked the door behind us. So, she leaned on the bed to take out her earrings or something like that, and I came up behind her and fondled her ass. I like to do that. Giving in to my urges, I pulled her pants down to her ankles and tweaked her pussy. She didn’t object. I was pretty horny already, so I lubed up my cock and slid it into her. It was pretty uneventful, but I got what I needed. She toweled off, and the evening continued. Hey, I’ll take what I can get.

Well, that is another reason I haven’t been blogging. Everything is same-old-same-old on the Sex Front. Besides, I have been so busy otherwise, but I thought I’d just check in…and out. Ta!

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  1. That really is too bad. First off, a 30 second blowjob? That’s not fun. And, secondly, does she know that the thing to get her in the mood is to have sex? The more sex I have the more I want. It stands to reason that the less sex I get, the more complacent I get and the less I need it.

    Comment by Holly Waters (DFP) — September 10, 2007 @ 1:18 pm | Reply

  2. DFP,

    If every blowjob was a 30-second one, it would be no fun. Every once in a while: it’s a change of pace.

    So, Holly, here’s what you don’t know…because I know you haven’t been there yet. My wife is a menopausal 54-year-old mother who home-schools. The hormones are one thing, and the work required to homeschool—properly anyway—is immense. My first wife experienced a drop in sexual interest once she had children. I find most (not all) men I speak to say the same thing…and that is not tossing in the homeschooling. (I won’t get into a discussion on my perspective around biological motivations here.)

    I am sympathetic to her needs, and she is sympathetic to mine. She knows I need sex at least a couple times a week, and though she doesn’t always come through, she tries. She told me flat out: When I want sex, I’ll let you know. Until then, I’ll just suck you off. As I say, not ideal, but I’ll take it. And since she is not exactly in the mood, I am not going to push too hard…of course, being a guy, I am going to push a bit, and take an opportunity when it arises. I let her know daily that I am interested, and I let her know what I want. We joke about it, and whatever happens happens. The part I miss the most is not being able to eat her as often as I would like.


    Comment by myfavouritelife — September 13, 2007 @ 9:14 pm | Reply

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