I can’t count the number of search entries where (obviously males) want to answer questions like these:
- How can I get my wife/girlfriend to
- shave her pubic hair?
- receive anal sex?
- to swallow?
- do deepthroat?
And the list goes on.
Let me just start with one word: communication. You need to ask. You need to have open dialogue. You need to let her know why you want these things. You need to reassure her. Don’t coerce her. Don’t threaten her. Not everybody is into these things. Perhaps she isn’t. Perhaps you are with an incompatible partner.
If after you have asked and stated your position and she is not interested, you should be asking her why. This should be a point of discussion. She could have any number of reasons. Some will be rational, and some will be pathological. In the end, you will need to come to an agreement. If these things (or anything) is really important to you and she is unwilling to meet you in the middle, you may need to look elsewhere. Keep in mind, though, there may be things she wants you to change or do as well.