Be careful what you wish for. I am briefly breaking my hiatus, but I am not likely to write anything more here for a while. Time will tell.
Can you have too much of a good thing? I have written at length about the deal my wife and I have. In my attempt to get more and varied sex, I am managed to get more, but the varied part has eluded me. So you don’t have to read my previous posts, I can sum it up by saying that we were having sex only twice a week, and it was mostly oral and sometimes vaginal. Of course, I love both, but I was upset that she wouldn’t swallow and wasn’t so much up to deepthroat. I also preferred that she be shaven and take anal. So we made a deal.
Here’s the problem: I gave her some options so she could have some control. So the problem is that even though she has options, she has settled into one option: anal sex. Of course I enjoy anal sex; that’s why I made it an option. I wanted more. Well, over the past month or so she has settled into a nightly routine of anal sex. Since she decided that she doesn’t want to swallow or do deepthroat—though she was willing to at the beginning. She has found that of the options, she prefers anal, and she does still shave on the weekends.
Not only does she prefer anal sex, but she prefers it in missionary position—on her back; legs up. Now this is a nice position to be sure plus I get a few warm up strokes into her mouth and pussy, but I have moved away from my desire for variety into routine again. At least I can convince her to take it doggy style, but that isn’t her preference. The bottom line is that psychologically she tells herself she doesn’t like getting anal sex—like many women. But when push comes to shove, it is obviously more comfortable to her than deepthroat or swallowing, which she used to do routinely.
In the end, I am just going to wait to see how it all plays out. I can live with a lot of anal sex. At least it is sex, and it is not as if I don’t have some access to the rest—at least as foreplay. I don;t get to eat her pussy as much as I would like either. She just wants to get it over with. Anyway, I guess I’ll stop complaining and get ready to start my day.