My Favourite Life

August 22, 2008


Filed under: Anal Sex,Sex — myfavouritelife @ 6:23 am
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So, I do read over blogs, and one I keep an eye on is that tease Coquette. She’s got a new thread going, most recently she talks about what I have been waiting months for: her anal sex encounters. For sure, she sounds adventurous in her writing. She has even suggested the possibility but then stopped short. I think I am most interested in her writings because I have dated women with a similar bent in the past—so OK, 15 years or more gone by. But you know the time. If up for pretty much anything for a good time without too many walls.  If you want to try it and she trusts you, she’ll give it a go—not to mention the necessary photodocumentation.

Anyway, she writes about her recent anal experience. I always like to here the woman’s perspective in a somewhat positive light. I am not saying a woman reading her post would be saying to herself, “That sounds nice; this chick is into pain. No wonder she doesn’t mind anal sex, but I don’t like pain.” The stereotype is the anal=pain, and of course if this guy is as big as she says, well, it just might be a bit uncomfortable, if not painful. Luckily for her, she is into that. So was my first wife. She was into heavy S&M, B&D.  Even so, I don;t think she was into anal for the pain.  She even commented to several of her girlfriends that I was only only guy who could do her ass pain free and—not to be defensive—I am not a pencil dick.

On the topic of anal sex, my own wife approached me last night and asked me straight out, “Do you want to fuck me in the ass?” Now, that’s direct and to the point, and I responded, “Of course.” She asked for some Valium. I think she wanted to take some control, and she decided she was in the mood for anal even though we just had some. I gave her some Valium and we started with the standard back massage, and even though I always end up focusing on her ass—even more so when I know we’ll be doing anal—I knew I wanted to do it in missionary position again. This is her favourite way, and I was in the mood for that again.

Cutting to the chase. I took a few starter strokes in her pussy before moving downward. There is just something beautiful about leaning back and watching your cock in her ass—to see her being penetrate and yet have her pussy exposed and vacant. Who knows? Anyway, I just lay down on top of her just like an intimate regular fuck, except I was in her ass. I took my time and fucked her ass as slowly as I could manage until I couldn’t hold back any longer and I released inside of her bum. And I just laid there on top of her for what seemed like hours until my cock shriveled up and fell out on its own. That was the signal to get off.

Well, my time is up. I hope to her more from Coquette, maybe even some back stories. In any case, I’d like to thank her, and I hope you visit her site and do some reading of your own.  (If anyone has photographs, my email address is…)


  1. that is the best way, missionary position. I love too, to look in her eyes when I’m in her ass.
    last summer, a young woman I was teaching this to, was really getting into it I was half way in, when she lifted her ass up, shifted a bit, and pushed down on me. I went al the way up her ass then. The look in her eyes was something I will never forget. She loved it like that.

    Comment by C. — August 22, 2008 @ 12:50 pm | Reply

  2. A post about me? That’s so nice of you! Thank you…

    Here’s my guess about why women think that anal = pain: Bad past experiences with men.

    1. Men who didn’t really know how to do it right.
    Men who don’t understand that there are different phases of anal sex and that each requires different kind of stimulation. And that all phases require patience and respect.

    2. Men who watched too much porn.
    It looks easy when porn girls do it, but they are “trained professionals” and most women are not. But many men are too stupid to understand that and many women are too scared/too insecure to say ‘no’.

    3. Men who would never try bottoming.
    I noticed that men who received anal sex at least once, whether they liked it or not, show a little bit more understanding to the pain aspect.

    Now…I don’t mean to blame men for all pains we experience during anal sex. Women are responsible, too. But perhaps I should stop here and expand my comment into a full size post?

    Comment by coquetteinbed — August 24, 2008 @ 1:28 am | Reply

  3. Of course a full-size post is in order…

    Comment by myfavouritelife — August 27, 2008 @ 6:02 am | Reply

  4. […] My Favourite Life One of my long-time, most faithful readers posted a blog entry inspired by my note about anal play with The Best One. The post by the fellow blogger, My Favourite Life, can be found here. […]

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  5. Yes, both perspectives are nice! That’s actually half the point in fact, IMO, to know and appreciate what one’s partner is experiencing, be it pain, pleasure, or preferably, both!

    Comment by Riff Dog — August 27, 2008 @ 4:17 pm | Reply

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